Shopping on line can be easy, simple and save you lots of money. It can also take a lot of your time, frustrate you, and result in unwanted purchases. Now the same can be said for regular high street shopping, but with the vast opportunity presented by the Internet it will pay you to spend a few minutes reading this and understanding how to better optimize your Genderqueer shopping experience:
1. Compare - without doubt the biggest advantage that the Genderqueer offers shoppers today is the ability to compare thousands of Genderqueer at a time. This is a great thing, but not necessarily all the time! Too much can be daunting at times so take advantage of the great comparison sites and where possible let them do the hard work for you.
2. Research - if it has been said it will be on the internet. Ignorance is no longer a justifiable reason for buying the wrong thing. Take the time to research in detail everything that you could possible want to know about
3. Testimonials - don't know anybody that has bought a Genderqueer? Wrong! If the Genderqueer is good the internet will let you know. Use the Internet as a friend and get testimonials before you buy.
4. Questions - Got a question about Genderqueer then search the Forums, FAQ's, Blogs etc. Don't be afraid to ask .....
5. Reputation - Never heard of the company selling Genderqueer? Don't worry, no reason why you should know every company in the world, but you know someone that does! Use the internet to find out what people are saying about Genderqueer and build up a picture of their reputation for sales, returns, customer service, delivery etc.
6. Returns - still worried that even after all of the above your Genderqueer wont be what you want? Check out the returns policy. There is so much competition now that someone, somewhere is bound to offer the terms that you are comfortable with.
7. Feedback - happy with your Genderqueer then let people know, after all you are depending on others people input in your buying decision, so why not give a little back.
8. Security - check for the yellow padlock on the Genderqueer site before you buy, and the s after http:/ /i.e. https:// = a secure site
9. Contact - got a question about Genderqueer, or want to leave a comment then check out the sites contact page. Reputable companies have them and respond.
10. Payment - ready to pay for your Genderqueer, then use your credit card or PayPal! Be aware of companies that don't accept them, there may be genuine reasons but given the huge amount of choice you have when buying online there is no reason at all not to buy via credit card or PayPal.
Genderqueer or
intergender is a gender identity of both, neither or some combination of "man" and/or "woman". In relation to the
gender binary (the view that there are only two genders), genderqueer people generally identify as more "both/and" or "neither/nor," rather than "either/or." Some genderqueer people see their identity as one of many different genders outside of man and woman, some see it as a term encompassing all gender identities outside of the gender binary, some believe it encompasses binary genders among others, some may identify as a-gender and some see it as a third gender in addition to the traditional two. The commonality is that all genderqueer people reject the notion that there are only two genders in the world. The term genderqueer is also occasionally used more broadly as an adjective to refer to people who are in some way gender-transgressive, and could have any gender identity (see Alternative Meanings, below).
Related Gender Terminology
Androgyne,
Intergender, Bigender, Multigender, Third gender,
Neuter/Neutrois/Agender, Gender Fluid may also be used to describe where one lies on a gender spectrum or in gender spheres (outside the normal binary genders).
Genderqueer and Transgender
Some genderqueer people identify as
transgender, using the word as an umbrella term for a broad range of people who identify as a gender other than the assumed of their physical sex, and some do not. The two terms are not equivalent, but they do overlap. Genderqueer people may transition physically with surgery, hormones, electrolysis, and other practices, or they may not choose to alter their bodies by these means. They may also transition socially, or they may continue to dress and go by the pronouns of their assigned gender. There is more than one way for a person to be genderqueer.
History of the Term
The term genderqueer originated as an identity utilized mainly by whites, middle and upper-class Americans who were born female or are otherwise on the transman (female-to-male) or transmasculine spectrum, but today there are many self-identified genderqueer people who are from different racial, ethnic, class, gender, and national backgrounds. However, people who identify as genderqueer are still disproportionately from that group.
Gender and Pronouns
How genderqueer people view gender as a whole and its relationship to themselves varies. Some genderqueer people view gender as a continuum between man and woman, with the two traditional genders at the two poles and their own genderqueer place as somewhere within the continuum. Others believe there are as many genders as there are people. Still others believe that binary gender is a social construct, and choose not to adhere to that construct. Some genderqueers do fit into the stereotypical
gender roles expected of their sex, but still identify outside of that and reject a two-pole gendered system. Some genderqueers experience their gender as fluid, varying from day to day or year to year. Some genderqueer people reject any gender system as a valid method of classifying individuals.
Some genderqueers prefer to go by the conventional binary pronouns "he" or "she," while others prefer gender-neutral pronouns such as "ze", "per", "zir", sie and hir, "zhe", "hir", "zes" or
singular they instead of gender-specific pronoun. Some genderqueer people prefer to have people alternate between he and she (and/or gender neutral pronouns) in reference to them, and some prefer to use only their name and not use pronouns at all.
The terms
pansexual, omnisexual, polysexual and multisexual exist specifically in reference to the understanding of there being many genders, rather than "bisexual," which implies only two genders and sexes. Pansexuality means being attracted to or open to attraction to people of all different gender identities, and reflects a non-binary understanding of gender and its interplay with sexuality.
Note: Some people see "genderqueer" as a more consciously politicized version of the term
androgyne, popularized by Androgyne Online, which is linked below. Androgynes are also people who identify as both man and woman, or as neither. "Androgyne" is synonymous to the more cumbersome "non-binary gender variant."
Alternative meanings
The term genderqueer is also sometimes used in a broader context as an adjective to refer to any person who challenges gender roles and binary notions of gender. This is similar to the way
homosexuality, bisexuality, and other people may identify as queer as a broader, umbrella term. However, because genderqueer also refers to a more specific gender identity, the terms gender variant, gender transgressive, or gender non-conforming are applied more broadly to refer to the wide range of people whose gender identity or expression transgress societal expectations.
References
Nestle, Joan, Clare Howell, Riki Wilchins (2002) (Eds.) Gender Queer. Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary. New York: Alyson Books.Stryker, Susan and Stephen White (2006) (Eds.) The Transgender Studies Reader. New York: Routledge.
See also
External links
- Butch-Femme.com
- I Love Genderqueer: a conversation about GQ relationships
- Official Site of GenderQueer Revolution
- GenderQueer Revolution's MySpace
- Gender Crash! Intersection of Boston's Queer, Transgender, and Gender Queer Communities Resources, Rants, and Information for Everyone!
- Alt.Support.Intergendered
- United Genders of the Universe a genderqueer organization
- Androgyne Online: non-binary gender variants/variance
- Susan's Place Transgender Forums: Androgyne Talk Section
- The Neutrois Outpost: people who identify as being non-gendered
- Sphere: gender as a sphere, where male and female are just two of a number of possible points
- The Two-spirit Tradition
- Yahoo Androgynes Group:A Yahoo Group for androgynes and their supporters.
Genderqueer or
intergender is a
gender identity of both, neither or some combination of "man" and/or "woman". In relation to the
gender binary (the view that there are only two genders), genderqueer people generally identify as more "both/and" or "neither/nor," rather than "either/or." Some genderqueer people see their identity as one of many different genders outside of man and woman, some see it as a term encompassing all gender identities outside of the gender binary, some believe it encompasses binary genders among others, some may identify as a-gender and some see it as a
third gender in addition to the traditional two. The commonality is that all genderqueer people reject the notion that there are only two genders in the world. The term genderqueer is also occasionally used more broadly as an adjective to refer to people who are in some way gender-transgressive, and could have any gender identity (see Alternative Meanings, below).
Related Gender Terminology
Androgyne,
Intergender, Bigender, Multigender, Third gender, Neuter/
Neutrois/Agender, Gender Fluid may also be used to describe where one lies on a gender spectrum or in gender spheres (outside the normal binary genders).
Genderqueer and Transgender
Some genderqueer people identify as transgender, using the word as an umbrella term for a broad range of people who identify as a gender other than the assumed of their physical sex, and some do not. The two terms are not equivalent, but they do overlap. Genderqueer people may transition physically with surgery, hormones, electrolysis, and other practices, or they may not choose to alter their bodies by these means. They may also transition socially, or they may continue to dress and go by the pronouns of their assigned gender. There is more than one way for a person to be genderqueer.
History of the Term
The term genderqueer originated as an identity utilized mainly by whites, middle and upper-class Americans who were born female or are otherwise on the
transman (female-to-male) or transmasculine spectrum, but today there are many self-identified genderqueer people who are from different racial, ethnic, class, gender, and national backgrounds. However, people who identify as genderqueer are still disproportionately from that group.
Gender and Pronouns
How genderqueer people view gender as a whole and its relationship to themselves varies. Some genderqueer people view gender as a
continuum between man and woman, with the two traditional genders at the two poles and their own genderqueer place as somewhere within the continuum. Others believe there are as many genders as there are people. Still others believe that binary gender is a social construct, and choose not to adhere to that construct. Some genderqueers do fit into the stereotypical gender roles expected of their sex, but still identify outside of that and reject a two-pole gendered system. Some genderqueers experience their gender as
fluid, varying from day to day or year to year. Some genderqueer people reject any gender system as a valid method of classifying individuals.
Some genderqueers prefer to go by the conventional binary pronouns "he" or "she," while others prefer
gender-neutral pronouns such as "ze", "per", "zir", sie and hir, "zhe", "hir", "zes" or singular they instead of gender-specific pronoun. Some genderqueer people prefer to have people alternate between he and she (and/or gender neutral pronouns) in reference to them, and some prefer to use only their name and not use pronouns at all.
The terms pansexual, omnisexual, polysexual and multisexual exist specifically in reference to the understanding of there being many genders, rather than "bisexual," which implies only two genders and sexes. Pansexuality means being attracted to or open to attraction to people of all different gender identities, and reflects a non-binary understanding of gender and its interplay with sexuality.
Note: Some people see "genderqueer" as a more consciously politicized version of the term androgyne, popularized by Androgyne Online, which is linked below. Androgynes are also people who identify as both man and woman, or as neither. "Androgyne" is synonymous to the more cumbersome "non-binary gender variant."
Alternative meanings
The term genderqueer is also sometimes used in a broader context as an adjective to refer to any person who challenges gender roles and binary notions of gender. This is similar to the way
homosexuality, bisexuality, and other people may identify as queer as a broader, umbrella term. However, because genderqueer also refers to a more specific gender identity, the terms gender variant, gender transgressive, or gender non-conforming are applied more broadly to refer to the wide range of people whose gender identity or expression transgress societal expectations.
References
Nestle, Joan, Clare Howell, Riki Wilchins (2002) (Eds.) Gender Queer. Voices From Beyond the Sexual Binary. New York: Alyson Books.Stryker, Susan and Stephen White (2006) (Eds.) The Transgender Studies Reader. New York: Routledge.
See also
External links
- Butch-Femme.com
- I Love Genderqueer: a conversation about GQ relationships
- Official Site of GenderQueer Revolution
- GenderQueer Revolution's MySpace
- Gender Crash! Intersection of Boston's Queer, Transgender, and Gender Queer Communities Resources, Rants, and Information for Everyone!
- Alt.Support.Intergendered
- United Genders of the Universe a genderqueer organization
- Androgyne Online: non-binary gender variants/variance
- Susan's Place Transgender Forums: Androgyne Talk Section
- The Neutrois Outpost: people who identify as being non-gendered
- Sphere: gender as a sphere, where male and female are just two of a number of possible points
- The Two-spirit Tradition
- Yahoo Androgynes Group:A Yahoo Group for androgynes and their supporters.
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